What women mean when they say men need to be better

What women mean when they say men need to be better….. read this main link 1st

https://spawnyspace.wordpress.com/2016/06/20/be-better-she-says/

Ok bitches now that you’ve read up let me Ton’erize this shit for you

To be Red Pill requires a man to understand there are objective Truths in the world. If a man does not understand there are capital T sort of Truths, he will struggle to be Red Pill. Women don’t do truth and don’t do Red Pill (unless its a way to get attention from men/ society)

The Red Pill is understanding men and women are different, those differences are genetic/ biological and not social(same applies to race as well); those differences effect how the world works; all women are like that and being Red Pill is living in that harsh reality ( women don’t care for reality, don’t know jack shit about capital T truth and are at best purple pill. Any failure to grasp any of those points waters down the Red Bill with a dose of blue)

The main Red Pill tenants to grasps are…. women have a dual mating strategy (alpha fucks/ beta bucks) and women lie like they breathe, automatic, natural and without thinking which is why we generally ignore what a woman says and watch what they do.

When bitches say men need to do better the 1st thing we have to understand is…. she’s fucking lying. Second thing to reckon on is which mating mode is she in? Is she looking for alpha fucks? Or does she want beta bucks? Rollo covers how women shift gears better then I ever could but I rarely as in never read anyone discussing the other part of the alpha fucks beta bucks equation which is…. women want what they don’t have. If they have stability and prosperity, they want adventure and tingles. If they have tingles they want stability and security. If she is getting her baby box jack hammered by alpha cock 6 times a day she will be longing for the caring embrace of a beta( not his cock mind you, just his emotional support and his ablity to do her domestic chores). When a girl is saddled with a beta she will be longing for a baby box full of alpha jizz.

Lets look at the bitches in that post by my man Farm Boy. Both have money, power or access to it, social status and damn near everything else a woman could want. What they don’t have is an alpha cock “forcing” them to their dirty, cum hungry whore knees. So when they say men need to be better, they mean men need to be more alpha. This is the common refrain from UMC and up bitches

When some broke ass bitch in the ghetto or trailer park says men need to be better they mean make more money and buy me shit with it…. Yes there are broke ass beta’s but betas don’t get much ass in any social circle.

This is driven by hypergamy; bitches want the very best in men, that top 20%, which plays out in fairly predictable ways. If she has a beta, she wants him to be more alpha, if she has an alpha, she wants him to be more beta. Its the tingle driven pursuit of the perfect male and every bitch breathing is driven by hypergamy. Once again, hypergamy isn’t the issue. What creates the mess we have now is unrestricted hypergamy. I was going to say women without a sense of self awareness and unrestricted hypergamy but women don’t, as a rule, do self awareness or self restraint. It’s up to men to create and maintain social systems that keep bitches in their place  because one of the many things feminist and women liberation has proven is women will not put checks on their own behavior

Anyrate brothers, there you go. That’s what women mean when they say men need to be better. Remember, women are convoluted, not complex so dealing with them is not a complex issue

 

 

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60 thoughts on “What women mean when they say men need to be better

  1. Farm Boy

    Oprah’s audience typically was a mixed bag. But probably in this case, the members probably had enough provisioning. So that would leave one thing…

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    1. SFC Ton Post author

      legit. It’s normally a mixed crowd but when UMC types speak they are only ever speaking about themselves. Especially UMC women

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  2. Anonymous Reader

    Ton’s post in 6 of his own words: women want what they don’t have.

    There it is. Right there. Can’t make it any simpler than that. Well, wait, I can do it in 4 words.

    Women want fried ice. They want it served up piping hot and still frozen, and they want it now, right now.

    AWALT now and forever, the problem is we have 50+ years of catering to the whims and demands of women, so that now Orpah’s girlies feel cheated because they can’t share Steadman with her or better still have their own.

    PS:
    A lot of college-educated women are holding the job that the man they want could, and should, have. They are their own beta, this makes them even more hungry for alpha just as farm boy & ton say.

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  3. Ame

    ” women want what they don’t have. If they have stability and prosperity, they want adventure and tingles. If they have tingles they want stability and security. If she is getting her baby box jack hammered by alpha cock 6 times a day she will be longing for the caring embrace of a beta( not his cock mind you, just his emotional support and his ablity to do her domestic chores).”

    Truth.

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  4. thedeti

    “Women don’t do truth and don’t do Red Pill (unless its a way to get attention from men/ society)”

    “( women don’t care for reality, don’t know jack shit about capital T truth and are at best purple pill. Any failure to grasp any of those points waters down the Red Bill with a dose of blue)”

    I have learned these first hand, and am still learning them. Maybe someday I’ll actually internalize them. This is the last Red Pill truth I have yet to accept:

    Women aren’t really Red Pill. Women accept the Red Pill only as long as it serves their own individual purposes. Once said purposes are served, the Red Pill will be vilified as misogyny and sexism.

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      1. theshadowedknight

        I came to it when I answered the age-old question; what do women want? The answer is simple–another question; who cares? Internalize that indifference, and you will only be concerned with the results.

        What they think? So what? It does not matter. Women are given to men, and it was given to us to decide and lead.

        If I am having fun with a woman, it does not matter what she thinks. What she feels is my enjoyment reflected upon her. Let her think I am the most very worst sexiss she has ever met. She is still grinning and playing games and showing her interest. As long as she is feeling and doing, it does not matter what she is thinking or saying.

        The Shadowed Knight

      2. SFC Ton Post author

        yup. that indifference will get you almost everything from almost every woman as long as it is not mean spirited

        I bought 20 tablets today for my trucks from some girl at the AT&T store. During the process I called her tablet wench, implied it was a minor miracle she could read and write simple sentences, told her and the other girls standing around to line up for spanking because girls who stand around doing nothing should be punished…. nothing but laughs and similes

      3. theshadowedknight

        I was calling one of the girls at work a brat because… well, because she was being a brat. She asked me later if I really thought she was a brat, and I assured her that I did, indeed, think that, and that she was. Then I reassured her that she was not a wretch, just a brat. Explaining further, that she is like a puppy biting as it plays; it needs to be trained out of it, but it is cute and innocent, so tolerable. She left the room with a big smile on her face, and I was very much amused.

        I will have to remember to use wench more often. Pizza wench, register wench, juice wench, meat wench. So many wonderful opportunities. I look forward to it.

        The Shadowed Knight

      4. Sumo

        A couple years back, I was playing golf with a bro (shut it, Ton – I know how you feel about golf), and the chick driving the beer cart took a liking to me after I called her “beer wench”. My buddy landed 18 holes that day.

        The Mighty Sumo landed 19 holes. 😉

      5. SFC Ton Post author

        Nice
        remember fellas its all about the delivery

        I recently bought some refer trailers and referred to the sales lady as trailer wench…. in front of her husband. She giggled and smiled her former marine husband gave me the stink eye but marines are pussies so thats all he did

        Buddy of mine has a dog named….. Dixie Dog. She is an amazing beautiful animal. People stop him to talk about the dog everyday. Anyrate he tells them “I named her Dixie Dog so I’ll always have a bitch with double D’s in my life”. To which the girls always laugh… well this one time at Starbucks a girl kind of pouted and said “that’s funny but I don’t have double D’s”. My buddy replied “that’s ok, my dog does and you are still cute”. A cup of coffee later he had the pouty girls number.

        Lesson on that is always have a follow up answer which is funny and demonstrates a strong masculine frame

    1. theasdgamer

      I think that, for me, the Red Pill truth that I continually overlook is that women are frequently more interested in sex than I am. I’m still used to thinking that men have higher sex drives than women. But it ain’t necessarily so. Our default setting is higher, sure, but women’s libidos can spike VERY high.

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      1. SFC Ton Post author

        Women may not want a dick in them 24/7 but they want to feel desired/ semi aroused… like a sex object pretty damn often

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  6. feeriker

    …implied it was a minor miracle she could read and write simple sentences,

    If she was a millennial, I’d say it was a MAJOR miracle.

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  7. redpillgirlnotes

    Yes very true women want what they don’t have. I have seen this over and over w women I know irl. They want to turn the alpha into a beta (then if it works they dont like him anymore or want a different alpha!) or they have a beta who is good and steady after an alpha wouldn’t commit and then they moan and complain bc he’s not alpha (while they are sahm going on 10 day vacations to cool places twice a year or whatever, I really don’t feel sorry for them!) women do seem to be wired this way as Rollo explains but I don’t really get why it would be an advantage biologically to have women seemingly never content w what they have but always wanting what they don’t!?!?!

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  8. redpillgirlnotes

    Further I think women would be better served learning to be content in whatever their situation, to appreciate what they have rather than focus on what they don’t. There’s always going to be something missing or wrong in life, it doesn’t have to destroy one’s happiness but often people let it. Seems like a east of time to me, better to be happy for the good stuff even on the smallest level, maybe things could be better but then again things could also always be worse!

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  9. BuenaVista

    It seems I have not turned the corner, tho I thought I had.

    Anyway, field report is that women now don’t simply assert their feminine imperative. They actually expect other people to support their fictional view of themselves. We’re supposed to acknowledge a fabricated self (think college undergrads exploring their’identitity’).

    It’s not about understanding which phase a chick is in. It’s now about affirming her current self image. This is new. Didn’t happen three years ago.

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    1. SFC Ton Post author

      liget
      friend of mine went out with this girl a few times. Kind of cute,nice body, utter train wreck of single mom

      Week into things and she is saying I think I love you. Then one day he gets a text from her saying she was with her ex all morning and she still has feelings for him

      My buddy tells her good luck and good bye. She melts down because after spending the morning sucking her ex’s cock she now knows she is ready for a good man, but he cannot be a good man because he doesn’t understand her feelings and some shit like that. Any rate she said she wanted to be treated like a queen… which sums it up well. They want to fuck around like tramps and still get the royal treatment.

      All said and done she made this fuss public but is now telling their mutual friends she dumped him because he didn’t like one of her tats. Reckon she changed her story when she didn’t get any play out of “the meanie wouldnt take me back after fucking another dude”

      Really women should be property with no more legal rights then livestock

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      1. BuenaVista

        We see the ‘i identify myself as … don’t you dare contradict or challenge that’ with most of the women on manophere blogs. That novelty has seriously worn off for me.

        I thought I’d turned the corner but it was more like a brick wall. I had a friend who is seriously behind the curve in the sex department. It would take me about five minutes to get her off — and then she would lose interest in the activity. I gently suggested that she take a different approach — and I learned that *she* thinks of herself as a virtuosic sex goddess, how dare I, ‘we’re not having this conversation’, etc.

        I have another friend who thinks she ‘finally know what I want’ — and therefore I should throw my serious caution to the wind and move to the other side of the world. Her meltdown happened when I observed that monogamous LTRs are a skill, not a choice, and her prior life showed no evidence of acquiring that skill.

        What I learned in both cases was that their constructed sense of self trump s reality and men just need to get with the program (like MaryLouise Slaughters beta chump husband). This is the end state of entitled open hypergamy.

      2. Anonymous Reader

        Ton
        They want to fuck around like tramps and still get the royal treatment.

        There’s that fried ice again.

    2. Anonymous Reader

      Buena Vista
      It’s not about understanding which phase a chick is in. It’s now about affirming her current self image. This is new. Didn’t happen three years ago.

      What age group? Under 25? 25 – 30? Can make a difference.

      The under 25’s that live on their phones can be stuffed to the max with beta orbiter attention via social media. It’s like a cloud around them. Their self-esteem gets turned up to 11.

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      1. BuenaVista

        AR, I date mostly in the 35 – 50 range. This quality exists there now. Perhaps I’m committing confirmation bias, but I don’t recall seeing it even three years ago.

        It’s like they’ve moved on from ‘i can have it all’ to ‘i am everything I can imagine.’

  10. SFC Ton Post author

    friend who is seriously behind the curve in the sex department. It would take me about five minutes to get her off — and then she would lose interest in the activity
    —–

    next. I hate that and a woman who says shit every 3 seconds while your banging her, though that issues is resolved with her panties shoved in her mouth and a little bit of duct tape

    I can only imagine the bulls-eye your success has painted on you and the bat shit crazy ones who want to lock you down due to your vast and worldly experiences

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    1. BuenaVista

      Dunno about that. But I did undertake a thorough, highly detailed long term study of female sexual response after I got divorced (my ex- and I were just naturals). In the interest of science of course. Then later I acquired from CH the notion of ‘alpha widow’ and voila, my life acquired new meaning. Basically, women seem to obsess on who was their ‘best’ and they don’t forget that guy.

      The irony about the #badinbed girl above was she was always telling me I was her best–yet it never occurred to her to check in with me on my level of satisfaction. That’s some serious solipsism right there. I was pissed at her — and myself even moreso for being so slow and sentimental on the uptake.

      Mrs Smith is a virtuosic nympho with serious rape fantasy requirements but I really wonder if she can be trusted with all those heavily armed versions of The Ton walking around in her world. You know you’ve got someone special if she complains about too much nicey-nice foreplay, not enough anal, not enough facials. I’ll miss her.

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      1. theasdgamer

        Mrs. Gamer didn’t like any foreplay.

        Drama warning:
        Looks like I’m nexting Mrs. Gamer because I caught her in a lie about where she was going to be. Not surprised, not mad, not sad. I told her that she was busted and that I hoped that her boyfriend was worth it. She immediately started flirting with me and asked me out, but I didn’t respond. She asked me again twice later if I was going out with her and I declined. Oops, lol.

        I was expecting this and I’m quite relieved and looking forward to a single life.

      2. BuenaVista

        I’ve been thinking about your retort for a couple of days.

        I do think that we inhabit The Age of Open Hypergamy. That’s point one.

        Now that my eyes are not wide shut, but open, I realize how many women were hitting on me when I was married, and offering to change horses when I was single. Three this year, incidentally. And I’m way the fuck out in the boonies lying very low, and I’m easily the oldest guy here. They’ll dump their husbands.

        So I just wonder where you go to sign up for mundane lifelong trust. Feminist culture reviles the notion as abusive.

        I love it when the camp followers say NAWALT. Well, that should be amended. To NAWALT at this particular moment, get back to me for an update tomorrow, because, well, shit happens and girls gotta express their inner goddess.

        You’re right, when was the last time anyone on Team Woman called out one of the sisters. If Ton or BV acts up, someone s gonna say, ‘STFU, you’re out of line.’ and when we hear those magic words, we’re 30 seconds from violence.

        Women instead say ‘Thank you for being so brave and sharing your awesome story.’

      3. SFC Ton Post author

        not very many men who try to tel the Ton to STFU

        Friday night I cowed an urban youth with a gun into leaving the bar, while my gun stayed in my pocket

        On the up side BV, most men never see any IOI’s. As well as I’ve done with women I get very few.

        Got to take what you can get in this world

      4. theshadowedknight

        You cannot do trust, anymore, BV. The best you have is assumptions and expectations. Trust is a luxury that a man cannot afford.

        The Shadowed Knight

      5. Anonymous Reader

        Just add the words “right now” to things women say.

        I Love You! [right now]
        Don’t Touch Me Ever Again[right now]
        I Hate You! [right now]
        I Do! Till Death! [right now]

        Etc. This solves the whole cognitive dissonance thing, where men look at women as if they were other men, and think “Ok, if’n you din’t mean that you shouldn’t of said it, but you said it, so you meant it”. It solves the “she said she would do this, but now she says the exact opposite” dilemma, where a man figures either a woman is a compulsive liar or marginally insane.

        It also takes away one of woman’s tools, gaslighting, where they say some mean thing one night, then insist the next morning or the next week or the next year “I’d NEVER say THAT! Not to you or anyone! Do you feel ok?”. Because they don’t feel the same later. The “right now” is over.

        BV
        To NAWALT at this particular moment, get back to me for an update tomorrow, because, well, shit happens and girls gotta express their inner goddess.

        Yup. Some men at Rollo’s point out that women are always pinging for Alpha, and it’s not necessarily conscious, either. It’s hard for them to be good, so sometimes they get bad. And the whole social / legal setup now is aligned to reward them either way – good woman or not, they get the full unconditional support of the state, the White Knight tradcons, other women, etc.

        [Right now] explains a lot.

        ShadowedKnight
        The best you have is assumptions and expectations

        Or you can “trust but verify” if you want. That can mean for a start her phone is always open to your inspection. When? Right Now

      6. SFC Ton Post author

        Just add the words “right now” to things women say.
        I Love You! [right now]
        Don’t Touch Me Ever Again[right now]
        I Hate You! [right now]
        I Do! Till Death! [right now]
        Etc. This solves the whole cognitive dissonance
        ————-
        legit

      1. theshadowedknight

        Usually, if you are not on Twitter, it is being used as sarcasm or to mock someone. The #badinbed means she is really disappointing in bed. If I were to say that a girl I know is a real #sweetheart, she is probably an evil bitch.

        The Shadowed Knight

  11. BuenaVista

    Mainstream ad for mainstream product. This guy just needs to do better.

    Wife looks so happy and interesting and kind and respectful of her marriage, no reason to comment. Though I think that if a guy hit that his dick would get frostbite, turn black and fall off — sorta like toes on climbers in the Himalayas. Better to just use it to flash freeze fish. It probably smells like fish anyway.

    Mainstream ad, folks. The mainstream.

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      1. SFC Ton Post author

        nice one BV
        Also I am not in the SMP mix these days but second hand intell from friends seem to confirm your opinion

        which begs the question, at what point do men who are successful with women bounce? I a, starting to see that with my peer group, but who knows if we are aging out of it or sick of their bullshit? If me and the Girls were to split, I’d hire hookers. Well at that price range they are called escorts but you get my point.

        Because a lady had a small child and groceries in her hand, I got the door for her today. She looked right through me. So I said you’re welcome, loud as fuck in my loud as fuck Ton voice and she got pissed with me.

        It’s shit like that which drives men to be hostile to indifferent toward women, and more men are doing so.

        Economically, I only hire women as waitress and bar tenders. I’ve had a few lady resumes for over the road drivers lately. Don’t want the hassle and I am trying to create a very dude friendly operation. Like performance bonus paid out as fishing trips instead of cash so a man’s reward goes to himself vs his ungrateful bitch and fuck trophies

      2. Ame

        “Because a lady had a small child and groceries in her hand, I got the door for her today. She looked right through me. So I said you’re welcome, loud as fuck in my loud as fuck Ton voice and she got pissed with me.”

        grrrrrrr. when women do that it makes me so angry, too.

        ——
        “It’s shit like that which drives men to be hostile to indifferent toward women, and more men are doing so.”

        can’t blame y’all.

        ——-
        “Economically, I only hire women as waitress and bar tenders. I’ve had a few lady resumes for over the road drivers lately.”

        smart man.

        ——-
        “Don’t want the hassle and I am trying to create a very dude friendly operation. Like performance bonus paid out as fishing trips instead of cash so a man’s reward goes to himself vs his ungrateful bitch and fuck trophies”

        wisdom. sad it must be this way, but it is honorable for you to so.

        ——-

        and … ‘legit!’
        🙂

      3. SFC Ton Post author

        so it makes you angry darling…. so what? Do you ever call them out on it?

        It will be years before I show any common curtsy to a random woman again

      4. Liz

        At the end of the article:
        “Comments temporarily disabled”

        Magic 8 ball says Mr Adams is fighting off a shit storm.
        He seems to have evolved quite a bit in the last couple of years, and the liberal portion of his audience (a substantial number) doesn’t like it.

      5. theshadowedknight

        Women, probably, and their effeminate enablers. Talk about women’s problems all day long, year-round for decades, and that is fine. A single blog post about men feeling deliberately humiliated, and that is unacceptable. Nevermind that women will gladly bitch to anyone in earshot while men are more reserved. Only one sex gets to talk about their problems.

        The Shadowed Knight

      6. SFC Ton Post author

        He shut down comments because of anti Trump trolls before he did that post…. well he used a lot more words but that’s the summary

  12. SFC Ton Post author

    LOL

    I’m drinking tonight with a friend who nexted his girl tonight. She thought it was ok to blow off date night to get her nails done… after they haven’t seen each other in a few weeks due to work

    This is why I was tell dudes to have more then one bitch and none of them get Friday or Saturday night

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  13. BuenaVista

    Sometimes I think I’m aging out, but then I’m surprised by a 20 something. I’m definitely tired of the F.I. script. For the 4,432nd time I listened to a date say tonight that she divorced her son’s dad because he was ‘abusive’ and had mental and alcohol (we were in a bar; underdeveloped sense of irony, perhaps). I feel like posting a reward: $1000 to the first woman who says, ‘Actually I dumped him because I was bored silly and couldn’t stand to even make eye contact.’

    Miss #badinbed was the real killer. I was starting to think intimacy and partnership were on the table. As soon as her self image was challenged it was victim card time. I was an idiot. You can laugh now.

    ***

    With respect to the door holding experience, I’m always amazed at how women move around a grocery store. They just assume the men will jump out of their way. And in the country more than a few are constructed like TrigglyPuff. Could be dangerous for a modestly sized man.

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    1. theshadowedknight

      I figure I have to wait about ten to fifteen years for the current crop of women to poison the well so bad that the next generation of women will be grateful for what they can get. Either that, I get everything in place to live in the middle of nowhere as a permanent bachelor. The current generation is just too much trouble.

      The Shadowed Knight

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    1. SFC Ton Post author

      lol I read that about coffee and a blow job. Sadly I am not much of a coffee fan but I reckon coffee isn’t the point

      I’ve meet a few women who owned up to dumping their ex over sex/ tingles, but in the cases I can remember they were also not in lock down the next dude mode, so the intell was more about establishing their sex goddess status vs honest commo…. which women don’t do

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