SFC Ton
Bio: All fueled up on Freedom, Friepower and FuckYeah Unapologetic, Unrepentant, Unreconstructed Southern masculinity
SFC Ton
Bio: All fueled up on Freedom, Friepower and FuckYeah Unapologetic, Unrepentant, Unreconstructed Southern masculinity
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Something that might interest you. I don’t know if it’s true (not my country).
http://elusivewapiti.blogspot.co.uk/2014/10/not-civil-war-you-were-taught-in-school.html
Thanks Spwany I’ll check it out
No problem, I think you’ll like it.
BTW if you get a chance, I’d love to know your numbers
I also have a post up about feminists and the NFL, starring Bill Burr.
I decided I could have more fun with my own place.
Cheers
Fellow high school drop-out here.
Not an idiot. Well read (read more than most college graduates)
Career options are pretty slim. Any recommendations?
Depends on your area and how fast you need to go to work
My area I would say plumbing, HVAC or CLD. CLD being the quickest but pay maxes out rather quickly
Job advice is hard to give because it is location dependent
I see.
Sounds like I should be going more for blue collar than white collar.
Well its not that simple
Generally speaking blue collar work and pay day is more immediate without the large amount of college debt, and I hate debt. HATE debt and immigration’s impact on certain blue collar jobs is minimal. Plus they can’t out source plumbing job. And there is a shit ton of money in them once you get your own liecince and have a couple guys working for you.
computers don’t pay like they use to, but it is still a good deal for some areas.
I am also assuming you don’t much like school since, like me you didn’t finish high school “on time”
Hated school. Love learning, though.
Long as there are toilets they’ll need plumbers. And I doubt they’re getting rid of toilets any time soon.
Thanks for the info, was helpful.
no worries
Hey Ton, what’s the modus operandi on texting that isn’t just for setting dates up? Shoot a text every once in a while, go silent unless she contacts you first, or what?
I like the hot then cold approach
So text them a few times when the response time is good then go ghost for a few hours. Th ed not be semi slow to respond, then have good response time, then slowly, then ghost
Try not to establish a fixed response time/ rate but don’t be scart to initiate either
Remember you are a busy high value target, but not so busy you have no time for here
I’ve read some guys recommend taking at least twice as long as the chick took to respond, but if I really have nothing going on and I’m just waiting around to fulfill a self-imposed time quota, it seems a little ridiculous.
Thanks.
lol that’s my take and believe it or not, girls are picking up on game tactics like
Hey Ton, what are the pros/cons of calling a girl v.s. texting to set up a meeting?
Don’t see any pro’s
Lol let me try that again
Don’t see any pro’s or con’s.
I would say it all comes down to your target. Buddy of mine is banging this fine Panamanian girl. Kind of an old school gal very pretty, very feminine…. she doesn’t much text or what not.
A 22 year old with a semi bad attitude might view a phone call as trying to hard.
Got to calibrate for your target
I hear ya.
Main issue at the moment is trying to meet women. Don’t have a big social circle, and “cold approaching” seems to really only work for very attractive guys.
Every time I’ve seen someone do it in person, it comes off as autistic.
Hmmmmm. Cold approach…. start off chatting up cashiers and what not. They won’t get pissy etc
Then chat up girls with no additional intent.
See what gets smiles, make comments etc that invite further conversation.
Call them all darling…. really darlin
90 days later, at the most, start chatting them up for real.
5-15 of just shooting the shit 3-5 times a day and you’ll be in there
Day Game, chicks will give you more leeway when the sun is up
“90 days later…”
Should I have gotten their number by then, or would this all be in person?
Sorry man I failed to be clear
Pratice on random chicks with no intention of number closing. See what regularly works for you, keeps the conversation going, gets her to ask her own open ended questions, genuine smiles and what not from her
Then you should be ready to hit up girls for real.
Make sense?
Ah ok gotcha now.
A major stumbling block for me is I’ll get a girl where she wants to fuck, but I’m warry of std’s, (condoms don’t prevent hpv and herpes) so try to put off sex until I know them well enough.
Obviously this is a turn off for most women.
Legit and a good reminder of how women drive the hook up culture
Scant advice but I can’t fault your concern or your logic
Sometimes there are no good answers and we are living in a time that is a result of people deliberately destroying the historically correct/ good answers
Interesting and well organized blog. Kudos to you Ton!
Thanks
Hey Ton,
I was wondering if you were aware (given your poly household) that for the majority of human history, only about 40% of men got to reproduce, while around 80% of women got to reproduce.
Men with high statue often had multiple chicks, those with slightly less status often only had one, and guys at the bottom of the totem pole had none. A sort of natural-selection.
I’ve seen the argument made that forced monogamy, where every man regardless of overall quality gets to reproduce, is long-term bad for a society, since certain attributes are passed on that otherwise would have died out in a less hospitable era.
Thoughts?
I am aware
Thoughts? Not really. Everything is a trade off. 1 whisker biscuit per hog leg shackles a lot of men, but also harvests a lot of man power, the building blocks of civilization
On the other hand, one man, one wife and civilization probably does weaken the gene pool, especially men.
Intellectually I realize all this is cyclical but that doesn’t mean I am happy about living during the down slope
Just discovered your blog. I’m a Southern lady from VA. Glad to find a Southern gentleman. I’ll be back around, ya hee-yah?
lol Southern? Yup but no body would cause me of being a gentleman
Hi Ton, Didn’t see any way to contact you privately so just thought I’d drop you a line here.
Hope all is well with you and yours.
Things sound good, from your last post.
Congrats on another LittleTon of squee! 🙂
One. More. Year. To. Go. (plus change)
for this strange misadventure we’ve found ourselves in….
My Squee level is running kinda low these days (my version of T level).
Hope to get it back…
Take care and God bless and keep you and yours
-Liz out
Thanks darling, and take care of you, get that Squee level up when and where you can 😉
I delete your post if that will help with opsec
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Followed you here from Sigma Frame.
Do you have an email address at which I can contact you?
Not yet but let me come up with something
Thanks. You could post it here or at Sigma Frame…doesn’t matter to me. Probably here is better since you can delete more easily if you wanted.