Life is hard, always has been and always will be; certain sectors of a society have it tougher then then others, mostly based on station. Most of the time being poor and powerless sucks more than wealthy but wealthy and powerful people have their own sort of hardships. I see a lot of poor folk around me, most hangout, smoke weed and drink 40’s. They worry about having enough money for the month but not much else. A friend of mine has 500ish employees. He never worries about his personal money but he worries about the 500 people that rely on him for their lively hood. That’s a no shit heavy burden. A battalion commander down range has his own room, his own ride, his own driver but the lives of 750 men in his hands. The Private sleeps in the dirt, the rain and the heat but much less responsibility. The only people without hardships are the kind of people who are fucked in the head, and there are a lot of ways to be fucked in the head
Societies will always have different levels and different sorts of trials and tribulations. That’s life. Certain people will always be marginalized, treated differently and “unfairly”. These are the people on the margins. Life is hard for crack addicts and should be. Life is hard for queers, and should be. Life should not be hard the vast majority of people who do what they can to abide by the law, not harm anyone purposefully and get by on their own strengths and weakness. However, right now society is designed to hurt the majority, ie White folks most especially White men of middle and lower social economic standing, middling intelligence, middling drive, average abilities and what not. That will not last, cannot last when the most effective members of your society are intentionally hamstrung for political gain. How long it will last and how things will play out when it crashes is anyone guess, but not what I want to focus on. I want to focus on helping men in the here and now
Around these parts we mostly discuss how life is intentionally designed by feminists and the feminine imperative to make life hard for Beta Males, but much of what makes Beta Male life difficult are unintentional results of modern life. I would like to talk about the unintentionals for spell setting up a post on maintaining frame for long term game. Once we can identify problems we can produce solutions and work arounds
Most of what makes society work and civilization roll on is based on men, but civilization means those men are a level or three removed form the individual woman. Women are naturally prone toward not appreciating men more so when they do not directly benefit from the effort of a specific group of men, or one man in particular. Women also don’t do cause and effect very well, meaning if they ways the benefit from men are not direct, obvious and easily observed, they get to thinking they do not need the assistance of men. These inherit attributes of women magnify the results of modern civilization reducing the value of Beta Males( also wealthy people also tend to think this way about blue collar men so a wealthy woman is likely to really fail to understand how her comfortable life depends on men and show even less appreciation for the value of every day men). We live in a rather safe and orderly society. Low crime and “professional” policing means women do not need the protection of any particular man(brother, father, husband etc) like they would have 200 years ago. Work is not as physically demanding as it use to be and women do not need directly rely on the physical strength of men like they use to. Fork lifts have replaced manpower and a woman can run a fork lift. Elevators will bring a weeks worth of groceries up 5 flights o stairs easy enough. I know a farmer who bases who crops on what machines can do, managing a little over 700 acres damn near on his own. Modern transportation means women are not reliant on a man( husband, father, brother, uncle etc) to manage a team of horses, pull wagons free of mud, host sails, carry heavy loads on their back etc. Grocery stores mean women are not reliant on the men immediately in their life to do the heavy work of running stock and butchering large animals for meat
As the nature of work has changed, work has become effeminate. It take a strong sort of masculine mind set to be an engineer, but the work is generally done in doors, climate controlled indoors. The lady’s in the useless ass HR department do not work in vastly different physical environment then the guys creating useful products in the engineer lab three doors down. This reduces the value of work in a woman’s( and societies’) eye. She works in a office, you work in an office, your work is no big deal to her.
Most men work outside the home so their woman folk and youngins never see them be the boss, solve complex technical issues, over come leadership challenges and mange tricky social settings. It is hard for women and kids to appreciate what a Beta Male does to keep them feed and dry when its all done far away and not witnessed 1st hand. Electronic banking, debt cards and credit cards further removes work from provisions and therefore appreciation; people are generally well behaved these days so they don’t get to see their Beta Male stand up to poor behavior.
None of these things were done, as far as I know, to deliberately devalue average men, but these sort of things most certainly have. This is on top of the more commonly discussed issues of how feminism and the feminine imperative deliberately hurt Beta Males and lower their value.
Next post will be discussion on how to work around these every day sort of things